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Military Pen Pals

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Just wanted to share a success story with you. I joined as a member of the network while deployed to Iraq. I met D. and chatted with her until I returned to the U.S. I went to see her and we fell totally in love. We got married 2 days before I was deployed to Afghanistan, which is where I am now. I guess we'll have a honeymoon when I get back. Thanks for your service. It really does work. D. C.

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Let Military Pen Pals help you build a deep, personal connection with someone. Military Pen Pals is a member of one of the largest online friendship and dating communities in the world. When you join you get INSTANT ACCESS to millions of real, single men and women who desire a relationship with military professionals. Did you know that ONLINE Dating Services are being used more and more by the men and women who serving their country in the armed forces?

USA Today - Cupid’s Arrow Lands in a War Zone

According to USA Today, military servicemen and women take relationships seriously. And, they spend more time enjoying online conversations with friends and partners than the average online dater in the United States. In fact, the number of service men and women seeking military partners online has increased by 56% in past five years. Online dating sites are extremely popular with military personnel serving overseas. And, service men and women are actively using dating sites to find friendship and romance with other military personnel stationed nearby and also to meet new singles close to where they live at home.

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Online dating and chatting is the only way a soldier on active duty can create a loving relationship with someone. Soldiers have access to military internet cafes and laptop computers that make it easy for them to develop long distance relationships. FIND YOUR MILITARY PARTNER seeking military friendship, dating, romance and more. It's all just a click away. It's FREE to join Military Pen Pals! It's FREE to Search! What Are You Waiting For? We want ALL of our members to be successful!

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